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Coach posted an update
1 – Don’t EVER beg for sex.
2 – Don’t be creepy.
3 – Don’t put her on a pedestal.If a woman won’t let you go down on her, you’re doing something VERY wrong.
MokMok and Pat2 Comments-
Hello @Coach, speaking of not fearing losing her, a friend of mine has a long-term Fuck Buddy. She does want to lock him down but he doesn’t want to pursue anything serious with her. He even told her that if you got to meet a good guy why not get involved with him? She just can’t accept the fact until she really locks him. That moment reminded me of you explaining how women are really desperate for attention. They would put a man on a pedestal and sometimes begging a man for sex if he knows how to elicit ATTRACTION in her & she’s really attracted to him! What do you think?
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Yes, you’re exactly right! Plus, the fact that he’s not interested in anything more is driving her to try even harder. Without her realizing it, it’s also causing her to give him the best sex she has to offer in order to entice him into a relationship. So basically he’s getting everything he wants from her for free & he has no incentive to commit. The fact that he’s sleeping with her is giving her just enough hope to keep trying.
The flip side to this would be a woman giving a guy just enough attention & affection to keep him trying & giving her as much attention as he can give her. She’s getting everything she wants for free, so she has no incentive to give him anything more than what she already is. This is the female equivalent of what “friends with benefits” is for a man.
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