Level 1 Jack
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Jack posted an update 7 weeks ago
Guys question here,
How would you express something that is bothering you to a girl without looking needy?
To put you in context I met a girl two years ago on a trip, we’re nothing serious but from time to time, we have a chance to see each other so I take a little trip like once a year. Even though seeing her is not the main reason for the trip…
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I would just tell her when I’m going to be there and try to set up at least one time to meet up, explaining that you have other things to do while you’re there. I would probably be a little flexible, but not too much or she could end up stringing you along. Either she wants to see you and will make time for you, or she will make excuses.…
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I would just tell her what you essentially said here…”I’m coming, but part of the reason I’m coming is to see you. If you’re going to be busy most of the time, that’s fine, but I’d like to know ahead of time so I can plan accordingly with my bother/friends”. Of course say it in your own words, but there’s nothing wrong with being…
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Jack posted an update a year ago
Do you ever had any succesful relationship with a girl that had lots of casual sex and very short relationships and cheated a few times, a so called “promoscuous woman”, “girl with a past”… Can this type of girls be reformed if youre better looking and check more boxes that their past guys or it is just inevitable that it will happen to you…
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There’s a saying here in the States, “once a cheater, always a cheater.” That’s not always the case, but the the best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. It’s one thing to cheat once and realize it was a big mistake that goes against your values and repeatedly doing it. At that point, that’s just your character speaking for itself.… Read more
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The only way a girl like that can be reformed is if she does it herself, but even then you’ll never know if it’s permanent…plus, women tend not to improve on something they or society doesn’t deem wrong. Women aren’t shamed for this behavior by men or society in general. So they tend not to do anything about it, believing that all women are…
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Jack posted an update a year ago
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Am I the only one that at some point in the relationship you want or at least entertain the idea of being with that girl for the rest of your life? Im starting to feel like if something is wrong with me for wanting that and always trying my best to prevent the other person from leaving you (at least thats why we all here right?) I’m starting to…
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I think most men are looking for a woman to settle down with, as opposed to being a playboy. There’s nothing wrong with that. Where it becomes a problem is when you get attached to the idea that she’s “the one” or that she’s your soulmate. This causes men to become needy & submissive, mostly out of placing her on a pedestal & fear of losing…
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Jack posted an update a year ago
Guys any advice on how to get over a promiscuous woman. I made the mistake of taking her serious (or so I think) knowing I had friends who fucked her in one night stands, short term relationships of les than 6 months and a cheating history with some of their past bf. I thought I was almost over it and I recently found ot she is posting…
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Understand – it’s simply not normal to be promiscuos. That’s a low quality woman, no matter how beautiful. So be happy that it ended. Learn from your mistakes. Stop looking at her social media. Work on yourself and increase your value. Move on. There’s nothing else you can do.
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Yeah I have a few suggestions.
1) Accept that she’s, unfortunately, now unlovable by you. On a physical, emotional, neurological level, you just won’t be able to see her the same way. And that’s fine. It’s natural. This revelation has fundamentally changed everything and there’s nothing you can do about it, and it won’t feel the same, so you…
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Most of the hanging-on tends to stem from the fantasy you’ve created about her, which is something we all do to some extent…& some of the strong emotions also comes from the anger you have at yourself about this situation.
So, the first thing you want to do is begin to convince yourself that the woman you loved & still have feelings for…
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Jack posted an update a year ago
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Who would be in your opinion the most complete male character (real or fictional) that posses all the qualities and traits we work on to achieve in this community? “The perfect man” so to speak. (Avoiding very masculine characters with trauma issues that probably wouldn’t make them suitable for LTR, marriage or raising a healthy family)
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People often mention James Bond. Coach often suggests the Tony Stark character portrayed by Robert Downey Jr. It’s been a long time since I’ve watched movies and TV shows on a regular basis, so I don’t really have a lot to go on. Off the top of my head, the only thing I can think of as even a bad boy or alpha type would be some of the… Read more
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Yes, James Bond & Tony Stark are some fan favorites, as they both embody strong masculine qualities & are also very good with the ladies…but they’re probably not what most women would see as “marriage material”, but certainly wild fling material. Though, the idea behind having masculine role models is emulating their behaviors until you…
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