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Dating Tip: End Interactions On A High Note

This is a great, easy dating tip for building attraction that you can use right away is, ending interactions early and on a high note. Let me explain.

One of the ways men push women away begin almost immediately in the dating process.

You have a high attraction for a girl. You have a great connection with her. She’s beautiful, she’s fun and you’re just really into her overall. And it’s obvious she feels the same way. So, when you’re spending time with her and having a great time, whether in person or over the phone, you just don’t want the interaction to end. Naturally, you want to keep it going as long as possible, because it’s so much fun. You just want to spend as much time with her as possible. I mean, I get it-you’re under that love spell and you just can’t get enough of each other.

The thing is, the more you continue to draw out your time together, combined with spending every day or night that you can, she’s eventually going to get to the point where it’s just too much. At first, she most likely will not say anything about it. Then you will noticed that she begins to be not so available, followed by pulling away all together. Men are left thinking, “What the hell? We were having so much fun together! Why does she not want to hang out as much anymore?”

The reason why she’s pulling away is, because it’s just a bit too much. She’s beginning to become a bit overly familiar with you. Whether or not you realize it, you’re actually communicating to her that not only does she have you, but she can have you whenever she wants. Women like a little challenge and mystery in the man with whom she’s falling for. However, there’s nothing challenging nor mysterious about spending all your time with her.

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You Must Pace Yourself

Now, this dating tip is most important when the courtship is just getting off the ground and throughout the dating stage. However, you will also find helpful in your long term relationships, as well. The idea here is to pace yourself. You may remember me saying in my videos that you always want to go at the woman’s pace. However, sometimes she’s super into you. She wants to consume you and as much of your time as she possibly can. Many men will contact me saying that they were going at her pace, but the relationship was going lightening quick. SHE eventually told HIM that things were moving too fast, and men are left confused.

Since you, the man, are the leader of the relationship, the responsibility of the pace falls onto your shoulders. Yes, you do want to go at her pace, but it’s important that you understand, if you have an option to go faster or to go slower with a woman, you always want to choose to go slower.

Dating Tip: End Interactions On A High Note

One great way to do this is to implement an old showbiz trick; ending certain interactions early and on a high note, leaving her wanting more.

Think of cliffhangers on TV shows, or even movies with a sequel or part 2. Just when it’s getting really good and exciting, BAM! It ends. And you’re left thinking, “Dammit!” But, now you can’t wait to see what happens next. You’re thinking about it, anticipating when you can finally get that relief that your mind, or in the case of sexual tension, your body the gratification it craves and desires.

Psychologically speaking, our minds NEED to have those loose ends tied, or it drives us crazy. We can’t stop thinking about it and we often do whatever we can in order to tie up those lose ends and get the answers we crave. And the more a woman is thinking about you and wondering about you, and anticipating when she can finally see and touch you again, or be touched, the more her attraction for you is growing.

You also always want to keep in mind that the way a woman is feeling at the end of your interaction will remain until she interacts with you again. If you end interactions where it’s awkward, or on bad terms, that’s how she will feeling about you until she interacts with you again. However, she’s not going to be rushing to do that again, because she doesn’t fee good about it.

On the other hand, if the interaction ends on a high note; full of fun, excitement and love, she’s going to be daydreaming about you. She will be thinking about you and falling deeper in love with you.

Use This Dating Tip Sparingly

It doesn’t matter if it’s a date, or if you’re just talking/texting on the phone, ending the interaction early and on a high note is going to leave her wanting more of you. Of course you can’t do this all the time, You don’t want to get up and leave in the middle of dinner just because it’s going well. So, you have to use your judgment here.

Try it out and see how it goes. The next time you’re texting/talking on the phone, when the conversation is fun and exciting, and you’re obviously both enjoying the flow, simply tell her that it was great talking to her, but you have some things you need to take care of and you’ll talk to her soon. Then get off the phone.

Or, perhaps one night when you’re on a date with a girl who you’ve been dating for a bit already, and one whom you have already had sex with multiple times. You’re having a great time, say she invites you back to her place, just this one time tell her something similar to, “I’d really love to. Trust me. I don’t want this date to end, but I have to get back. How about I’ll get in touch tomorrow and make plans to see each other again soon?” Then give her a deep kiss and be on your way.

See? It’s not about being so aloof that she thinks you don’t care. It’s about resisting her a bit. It communicates your strength and power.

Frustration Can Be Good

Test it out a bit. Just remember, you don’t want to over-use this dating tip or she will feel that you’re playing games, or that you’re not interested, and perhaps begin doing the same to you. You just want to do this once in a while in order to reestablish frame. She may hate it in the moment, but she will love you for it long term. As I’ve mentioned in the past, it’s better that she be a little frustrated that she can’t have you when she wants, than for you to always be there.

I Can Help You

Need some help sparking and raising your girl’s attraction? Perhaps you are having some other issues with your dating and/or relationships? I can help you. Please visit my coaching page and book private, one-on-one coaching with me. We will get to the bottom of this and get things turned around for you.

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  1. Hi Eric,
    3days ago i discovered the woman i met on the internet 6 months ago had a secret sextalking including sexcamming relation with another man ,they stopped this 6 weeks ago and said that She started truly love me from that period and She would never do it again ..
    I met this woman twice in real life ,the last time so 6 weeks ago we had first time sex..
    I asked her why She did this lieing cheating thing on me , and She said that it gave her a special feeling another man besides me gave her attention on the net and was afraid of loosing this extra attention…
    She was in a long term real life relation over 20 years and has 2 kids ..She said She never experinced real love and says that since the 6 weeks She feels it for the first time in her life ( this is true i know her past)
    I also talked with the man on who She cheated on me and he said its true ,and also said that She stopped the sexmessages after the last time i had first time sex with her …
    Now She is begging me her to give her a chance ,She sent me about 200 x that She loves me ,She even said that when she does it again i could take her life….
    Eric what should i do?

    1. Well, it sounds like you were not in a committed relationship with her, unless you two talked about that prior. I understand it hurts when this sort of thing happens, but it’s situations such as this that makes it important to discuss these sort of boundaries. I mean, if she was lying to you, that’s something you must take into consideration on whether or not you can trust her moving forward, but I don’t see it as her cheating on you; at least based on what you’ve shared with me. It IS true that women get their validation from attention; they’re practically addicted to it. But, if she truly loves you she will not do something like this again. And it does sound reasonable that she didn’t realize she was in love with you until 6 weeks ago. It typically takes women 2-3 months to fall in love, & that’s only if you’re seeing each other & you are doing most things right. I recommend giving her another chance since she didn’t technically cheat on you, but keep your eyes open, & if she does something like this again, it’s over. If a woman EVER cheats you, there are no second chances.

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