Signs Your Girl Is About To Monkey-Branch

What does it mean to monkey-branch? In a nutshell, to monkey-branch is when a woman lines-up a replacement for you before she ends the relationship with you. Essentially, she grabs onto a new branch before letting go of the old branch, like a monkey would do. Chances are you have experienced it at least once in your life, since this behavior is quite common with women.

Not all women monkey-branch, but MANY do. There are some women out there who understand that the right thing to do is to end the relationship before going searching for another man. However, what usually happens for women who monkey-branch is that they begin losing interest in a particular man and then she begins to explore her options.

There Are Always Signs

Women typically give you signs where their heart is before making any significant changes in the relationship. If you can catch it in time, you can take action. In this case, you might want to prevent her from monkey-branching to another guy.

A woman who you love leaving you is painful enough, but knowing she has monkey-branched to another guy is just twisting the knife she just plunged into your heart. But, as I mentioned, there are signs that she’s losing interest and planning to monkey-branch to someone who she perceives to be a better option.

What a lot men don’t understand is that women slowly lose interest over time. It’s never overnight like it often seems. In fact, it only seems overnight because men tend not to pick up on her subtle signs of losing interest. So, we’ll change that today. But while she’s losing interest, other men are beginning to show up on her radar and catching her interest. She might exchange phone numbers or her socials with him, or perhaps he’s her new “friend”.

Do Not React

Regardless of how it’s happening, an attraction is building and the more that you react, the harder you try with her, the more her attraction for you drops. However, there are signs that this is slowly happening right before your eyes. If you handle it correctly you can either stop it, or you can walk away before she has the chance to break your heart and make you the fool. So, I’m going to give you some signs that monkey-branching is in the works and how to handle it for the best possible outcome, because the truth is, yes, you can turn this around. But if her attraction for you is too far gone, there’s nothing you can do besides walk away with pride and your self respect in tact.

Keep in mind that these signs are in no particular order. Just one or two might mean absolutely nothing. But, the more of these signs that you’re experiencing, the more likely it is that it’s heading towards a monkey-branch situation.

A Woman’s History

Probably the biggest sign that this will eventually happen is if she did it with you. In other words, if she monkey-branched from one guy to you, chances are she’ll eventually do he same to you. Same as if she cheated on a guy with you, she’ll eventually cheat ON you too. Pay attention to a woman’s history.

A New Male Friend

Does she have a new male friend? Now, this doesn’t necessarily mean she’s going to monkey-branch to him, or that she’s cheating on you with him. It’s possible that it’s completely innocent and she does, in fact, see him as nothing more than a friend. But you’re treading in dangerous waters. It’s worse if they’re developing a phone-ship, where they’re texting each other all the time. I’d say the big sign if something is going on is if she hides her phone from you or she sets her phone down, face down.

She’s Critical Of You

You notice that she’s becoming more and more critical of you, making you feel like you can’t do anything right. Women don’t understand that this behavior causes men to shut down and check out of the relationship. However, it’s also a sign that her attraction is quickly dropping and you need to make some changes or risk losing her.

She’s Comparing You

She’s comparing you to other men and pointing out your shortcomings. As an example, she might say, “When I’m upset Billy is very supportive and comforting, but you just turn on your stupid video games.” At this point, she has one foot out the door and she’s only telling you this as a warning to step up your game or else she might monkey-branch

She’s Less Affectionate

She’s becoming increasingly distant and less affectionate. If you’ve been following me for a while and you’ve seen my videos about women pulling away, then you know this is USUALLY something temporary. However, if you handle it the way I suggest, and it’s just getting worse, I recommend that you really paying attention and looking out for these other signs.

She’s Being Secretive

She’s been acting shady or suspicious lately. By this, I mean that she’s being extra secretive. Perhaps you’ve even caught her in a few lies. Even if she can easily explain them, again, I highly recommend that you stack that up against the rest of these signs. And remember, just because she can easily explain what’s really going on doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s being honest.

You’re Being Phased Out

She’s suddenly not bringing you around her friends and family anymore, almost like you’re slowly being phased out. When women aren’t interested in you, they don’t want their friend or family knowing about you. Though, she might keep you around for the time being for attention and support until she makes the switch. In many of these cases you can kind of feel it happening, even if you don’t have any hard proof. Usually when you have a hunch, that hunch is right.

She’s Been Looking Hotter

She’s suddenly much more fixated on her looks. Perhaps you notice her wearing more makeup or dressing sexier when she goes out with her friends. Maybe she started hitting the gym suddenly, or maybe she’s buying new clothes, especially sexy underwear or lingerie that you never see on her. These are classic signs that a new man us in her life, or at the very least, she’s put herself on the market.

She’s Going Out A Lot

She’s going out a lot more without you. She’ll use her friends as an excuse, and maybe she is truly seeing her friends, but there may just be another “friend” that she’s meeting up with, and it’s not a female friend.

The Sex Has Dropped Off

Of course the sex is much less, or nonexistent. And when or if you do have sex, you can tell she’s not really into it. She’s doing it more out of obligation, or to keep you off the scent of what’s really going on. I explained in a video a while back ago that women can still have sex with you when they’re no longer attracted to you, but there will be no passion and you certainly won’t be getting any oral sex from her.

She Has No Respect

She’s lost respect for you, or she has been treating you with little to no respect. This is a sure sign that she’s at the end and a breakup is imminent. Women can’t love you, nor feel attraction, for a man they don’t respect. It’s impossible.

She Gives No Affection

And if all of this hasn’t been implied yet, she’ll be much less affectionate, if at all. Again, she may still sleep with you, so that’s not really a good gauge by itself. However, if there’s no affection or loving touches coming from her, her attraction is super low or completely gone. When women are in love you, they can’t help but to be affectionate.

Attraction Has Been Lost

So what do you do if you’re noticing all of this, or a lot of it? The first thing you do is change your behavior immediately. I know this makes a lot of you angry to hear this, but the truth is, unless she has a screw loose, women don’t leave, monkey-branch, nor cheat on men who they’re in love with and have a relatively high level of attraction for. They just don’t. Hypergamy only comes into play when you’re not being the man that captured her heart initially. In other words, you’ve dropped the ball somewhere in the relationship, it’s turning her off and now she’s looking for a better option.

Before The Monkey Branch

Secondly, depending on how far gone she is, it’s often best to beat her to the punch and breakup with her before she breaks-up with you. I know that sounds crazy. It’s counterintuitive. But doing this typically makes her question her choices and feelings for you. Ultimately it restores her respect and attraction for you. Just remember, if she’s already crossed the line with this other guy, meaning she’s slept with him or has gotten physical with him while you two were still together, there’s no letting her back into your life. It’s over.

She Must Earn You

However, if she hasn’t crossed the line and you walking away was a wake-up call for her, and she wants to win you back, then let her if you still want her. Though, she must EARN you back. If you take her back too quickly and easily, without her earning it, she will lose respect for you again. Then the same thing will happen all over again within another few weeks or so.

The idea is that you command her respect through your actions.  Of course you have to be strong here, no matter how much you might love her. I’m not saying this is easy, because it’s not. But like I said, she MUST respect you, or it’ll never work long term.

In Conclusion

Women will always give you signs of where you stand and where they stand. You just have to pay attention. The mistake most men make is they allow their love for a woman to blind them from what’s really going on.

Women can be very sweet, loving and loyal, but sometimes they can also be very cold and ruthless. Her beauty won’t tell you she which one she is at any given time. This means that you have to look deeper than a pretty face and a hot body.

I Can Help You

Do you need help with girl who is about to monkey branch? Perhaps you are having some other issues with your dating and/or relationships? I can help you. Please visit my coaching page and book private, one-on-one coaching with me. We will get to the bottom of this and get things turned around for you.

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